Not an unheard word.Not an unheard character.
Hypocrisy if put in words mean "Insincerity by virtue of pretending to have qualities or beliefs that you do not really have".Pretention in other word.
Many times we see people resorting to pretention to win heart of others, to win business , to impress people around themselves.Sometimes it surely turns out to lead to victory route but almost all the other times it results in fiasco and shattering of the relationship that has shaped up - be it business or professional or personal.
When a fresh graduate joins a job and gets going, he needs to develop good professional rapport with people working with him.All depends on how the guys around him project themselves.In the first few days or a few months, when the interaction with the team members is only at work place,person may intend to harbour a certain opinion about his team memebers.Some may be hypocritical in nature and tend to project theselves as what they are not.But the story doesn't last long and surely on one heart-breaking day, the person realizes that he wasnt' correct about some of them.He was being cheated.And then the professional relationship takes a deep dive down to an unrevocable state.Only if it had started honestly, this situation wouldn't have arisen.
Similarly, we also see such hypocrisy in relationship between so called friends.When one learns that his trust on someone was betrayed, friendship surely takes a whinning route.Unxpected happens when one least expects that to happen.We hear of cases when a guy and gal seeing each other for a year or two breaks up.Reason.The Guy learns that the gal wasn't what he was expecting.He was being cheaten.It is surely tough to gauge a person's psyche in some limited number of days.It just takes an unfortunate event to take place and u know the person who seems to love u the most is a Hypocrite.It hurts more than anything else under the sun as emotions,trust and faith are collectively involved in such a relationship.
Friendhip, on a professional as well as peronal level, blosoms only when the foundation is laid in true virtues of the participating people.Hypocrisy is something which just looks for an ugly day to raise its ugly head and then u know u were the fool to believe some one who always cheated you, who posed himself as some one who wasn't but who you wanted to be.
We always wish to be surrounded by good people, by the people in whom we can repose our faith. Some of us are fortunate and some of us are not.But whatever be it, aleast one should strive to be honest to himself and others. Hypocrisy should be BIG NO-NO.
Hypocrisy if put in words mean "Insincerity by virtue of pretending to have qualities or beliefs that you do not really have".Pretention in other word.
Many times we see people resorting to pretention to win heart of others, to win business , to impress people around themselves.Sometimes it surely turns out to lead to victory route but almost all the other times it results in fiasco and shattering of the relationship that has shaped up - be it business or professional or personal.
When a fresh graduate joins a job and gets going, he needs to develop good professional rapport with people working with him.All depends on how the guys around him project themselves.In the first few days or a few months, when the interaction with the team members is only at work place,person may intend to harbour a certain opinion about his team memebers.Some may be hypocritical in nature and tend to project theselves as what they are not.But the story doesn't last long and surely on one heart-breaking day, the person realizes that he wasnt' correct about some of them.He was being cheated.And then the professional relationship takes a deep dive down to an unrevocable state.Only if it had started honestly, this situation wouldn't have arisen.
Similarly, we also see such hypocrisy in relationship between so called friends.When one learns that his trust on someone was betrayed, friendship surely takes a whinning route.Unxpected happens when one least expects that to happen.We hear of cases when a guy and gal seeing each other for a year or two breaks up.Reason.The Guy learns that the gal wasn't what he was expecting.He was being cheaten.It is surely tough to gauge a person's psyche in some limited number of days.It just takes an unfortunate event to take place and u know the person who seems to love u the most is a Hypocrite.It hurts more than anything else under the sun as emotions,trust and faith are collectively involved in such a relationship.
Friendhip, on a professional as well as peronal level, blosoms only when the foundation is laid in true virtues of the participating people.Hypocrisy is something which just looks for an ugly day to raise its ugly head and then u know u were the fool to believe some one who always cheated you, who posed himself as some one who wasn't but who you wanted to be.
We always wish to be surrounded by good people, by the people in whom we can repose our faith. Some of us are fortunate and some of us are not.But whatever be it, aleast one should strive to be honest to himself and others. Hypocrisy should be BIG NO-NO.
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